Ex-families, drama, etc.

So, this is not a weight related post, though there will be an update at the end :D

How do you relate to an ex's family who you haven't spoken to in 6 years without discussing the ex? See, I have a son who VERY rarely (every 2-3 years) sees or speaks to his dad. Well, he is almost 11, and so I was playing on facebook and found his grandpa, and thought (in my stupid, slow brain) that it would be a great idea to talk to him again. Now here is the question, what do you say? He made a comment on his facebook before I found him that he has lots of other grandkids but no recent pictures. I know that my ex has a picture of him from Christmas 2007, so do they just not talk, how do you find this stuff out?

On another drama front, my middle son hates me! He went to live with his dad about a year ago and he wanted to come down for spring break, well it is an 9 hour drive one way. So I told his dad 2 weeks in advance that we could meet halfway on Friday or Saturday. On Thursday his wife calls my dad to change plans. WTF? Really? So I spent all weekend trying to work out a way to go get him in between work schedules, visitations, etc. and no matter what I did his dad wouldn't do it. SOOOO its my fault. Gotta love it!

Anyway, on the weight loss front, I have not weighed this week cuz its, ya know, that time. However, I was steady at 244 last time I weighed about a week ago! So that takes off all the funeral weight and stuff because I got lazy. I also purchased Hip Hop Abs from the internet because my husband and daughter think that would be a great purchase, so we shall see. It should be here by this weekend, which means I start on Monday because I will be out of town before that....

That's all from the funny farm.